What Goes Around, Comes Around
Posted by Elite VAs on April 27, 2007
You know the old saying, “What goes around, comes around.” Well, as small business owners, we must take that to heart.
Okay, I will probably get a lot of flack for this, but here goes – I am not totally sold on the law of attraction, the main ingredient to “The Secret.” I know, I know, everyone is jumping on the bandwagon and that’s okay. I’m just don’t buy into the total package.
The part I do believe is that the attitudes and behaviors you put out, those are what you will get back. What I mean is, if you’re a happy person, always smiling, talking to people, exuding confidence, people will tend to flock to you. They’ll talk to you, they’ll smile back at you, they’ll lift their shoulders and walk a little bit taller.
If we want to be successful business owners, we must be the type of person that everyone wants to be around. We should be someone who is the “Go To” person, someone who shares what they learn, someone who’s not afraid to hold people accountable. If we show that we have other’s best interests first, good things will come back to us.
And here’s where I deviate from “The Secret.” I don’t believe you’re never going to have problems, that everything is going to be perfect. We know that’s not life. Things happen, clients leave without notice, we owe more taxes than we thought we were going to. But we bounce back. We do what we have to do to keep on keeping on. We learn from our mistakes and we move on.
If this is the type of person we become, we will be successful in life. We will have clients wanting our services because of wonderful referrals, we will have friends who want to learn how we’ve accomplished so much, we will have a full life and a successful business.
So figure out what you want to do for someone else today. See what happens!
Vickie
Erin Blaskie said
Vickie – great post!
I couldn’t agree more. I think that as business owners, we need to be very conscious of our actions and how they will affect other people. I have come across other VAs in the past who have stolen business, trash talked their colleagues, etc. To those people, they definitely will receive back exactly what it is they deserve. It’s unfortunate that it exists but it is there. To the rest of us, those who are positive and moral, we’ll receive back business that is positive and moral.
Erin
Danielle said
I’m of the same mind, Vickie. I think Laws of Attraction is a nice sentiment, but it’s nothing new and it’s really simply all about intention and positive attitude.
Chin WH said
I agree! Recently Bob Proctor is talking about how to accelerate the process of attraction in an interview. Great stuff! You can get a copy of the interview here: http://www.visualizationtechnique.com